A TikTok user revealed the reason that led her to leave her boyfriend after discovering he was cheating on her by messaging 85 women on Tinder. Tori, who posts on TikTok under the name @self.timer.tori, shared that while her boyfriend was trying to date another woman behind her back, not a single woman was interested in him.
In a widely circulated video with over 900,000 views, Tori, from the United States, explained, "What is more embarrassing and heart-wrenching than browsing your boyfriend's phone and finding out he's cheating on you?" She added, “Browsing your boyfriend's phone to discover that he is actively trying and failing to cheat on you is a shame and embarrassment I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.”
Tori admitted that she initially felt like crying at the thought of her boyfriend being unfaithful, but she found it particularly embarrassing that he couldn’t even find "one girl" to cheat with, which prompted her to leave him immediately, according to the British newspaper Mirror.
Tori clarified, “Here he is trying actively, putting in effort and time, looking for one girl to give him some of her time, but the pictures he chose for his profile are so embarrassing that he can't find any girl who would accept him.” She also commented on the video, saying, "There are only 85 messages from Tinder sent.”
Viewers of the video empathized with Tori's situation, as many women admitted to having experienced similar situations. One woman wrote, "This was the case with my ex-husband. He tried hard.” One girl replied, “Bro, look at your wife, then look in the mirror. We are friends now.” Another woman commented, "I found things like this on my ex-boyfriend's phone, and when I broke up with him, he said to me, 'I never cheated on you,' and my response was, 'Yes, because no one wants you.'"
