It can sometimes be difficult for some people to admit they were wrong. In some cultures, acknowledging a mistake can be seen as a sign of weakness or foolishness, leading some to strongly cling to certainty and correctness, according to a report published by CNBC. However, researchers have discovered that when a person admits they are wrong, they are not perceived as less competent; in fact, they can be seen as smarter, more collective, and friendlier. Experts and psychologists confirm that highly successful and well-liked individuals do not hesitate to say three simple words: "I was wrong." Successful individuals in their social and professional lives tend to:
1. **Prioritize Learning and Growth**
When a person reframes learning as a win, they move toward understanding, rather than tallying times they were right or wrong. A study conducted by psychologists Carol Dweck and Karina Schuman supports this, showing that individuals are more likely to take responsibility for their mistakes if they believe they have the ability to change their behavior. The key is to remind oneself that although a certain action was wrong, it can be changed in the future. Acknowledging a mistake does not mean that a person is bad.
2. **Seek More Information**
Experts believe that immediately jumping to a defensive position upon receiving criticism is one of the mistakes that characterize failures. A successful person responds by saying, "Can you tell me more?" and genuinely listens to what the other has to say. In this case, the person is more open to the other’s feedback and ideas and has the ability to expand their thinking about a topic or issue.
3. **Tendency to Forgive**
When a person admits they were wrong, they are not only seen as stronger and friendlier, but they are also very likely to be forgiven for their transgressions. A study conducted by psychologist Molly Crockett revealed that humans have an inherent willingness to forgive others, even strangers, possibly because the alternative harms or ends a relationship, missing out on the benefits those relationships could bring. When a person admits their mistakes, they create more potential to maintain or repair the most important connections in their lives.
