As most people prepare to celebrate Valentine's Day, indeed, some do not care about celebrating it or even considering it a special day. In fact, Valentine's Day is supposed to be a day to celebrate with your loved ones and show your love for them.
But have you ever thought about the reasons that might drive some people to act as if it were just an ordinary day and not celebrate it? According to some experts, some couples who have been together for a long time prefer to celebrate many other things and also believe that true love should not be celebrated through exchanging gifts on just one day of the year. Love deserves to be celebrated every day. Some say, "Why do we need a special day to remind ourselves that we love our partners and that we should do something special to celebrate the love we feel for them? However, some may need that, as this matter is primarily subjective."
Additionally, some people believe that celebrating Valentine's Day imposes social pressures on couples to follow a specific way of showing love to their wives and girlfriends, and that there are many pressures we experience today. Why add more pressure to celebrate Valentine's Day? Experts also believe that this day is linked to improving sexual activity among people as a sign of the continuity of love between couples, which could create another social pressure on both new and long-standing couples to perform sexually well on this special day to prove their love. This may not be correct at all in many instances. In fact, no one should feel forced to show love to their partner or spouse or anyone at all, as this creates an unhealthy or strained relationship. Spontaneous emotions, reactions, social interactions, and ordinary surprises are considered more beautiful and enjoyable than coerced emotions and actions.
